ministry

April 30, 2009

where faith is going wrong in social media : life without pants & a little bit of south park

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the last of my four installments guest posting at matt cheuvront's "life without pants" blog on spirituality & social media is out for the world to see titled "where faith gets it wrong." i bring back some thoughts you've seen on this blog before, from my thoughts on why your podcast isn't reaching who you think it is to some of my ideas i shared at podcamp nashville. go check it out and comment on any of the postings. tell me i'm full of crap (i just might be) or whatever else your get to thinking about.

April 17, 2009

blogging towards enlightenment : discovering your virtual self

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i've been doing some guest postings over at matt cheuvront's 'life without pants' blog talking up spirituality and social media. last week we talked about enlightenment & blogging today we are talking about discovering your virtual self.

got check them out, let me know what you think. lay claim to some of the stories & expand on them. did i mention that my latest posting i actually use capitalization? yeah, it was wreaking havoc on matt post editing

April 01, 2009

marshall mcluhan on church safety : life without pants guest post

for the next few weeks i will be guest posting over at matt cheuvrot's blog 'life without pants' covering thoughts on spirituality & social media. some thoughts (listen for the return to tribal culture mention) i ponder in my first posting are reflected in this snippet of marshall mcluhan. as with most things i hear, i relate them to church life. can you guess what i was thinking?

March 19, 2009

religious spiritual christ-follower emerging emergent missional : other defining typos

i just love religious satire. its so telling & holds up a mirror showing us how we really are. i pulled this gem out for a twitter conversation, but it reminds me of some of the whole definition/tags that people are willing & not willing to give themselves. it also reminded me of one of the snippets of prophetic twitterspeak i shared at my spirituality & social media session at podcamp nashville.

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March 18, 2009

someone who gets social media : interview with charlene li @ sxsw

as i've mentioned. our church gets social media & networks wrong all over the place. here's a gem of an interview with charlene li of groundswell. its not over the top point making, but she is so on target for where church/corporate entities need to examine themselves within the social media spectrum.

March 13, 2009

getting over our control issues : linked data for everyone

i'm a huge fan of ted. if i had the money i would so geek out at their conference. so it is with no real surprise that there is something shared that might in fact aid one of my passions, the church & specifically the umc.

in a lunch conversation i had with larry hollon on tuesday (thanks larry for the time) he had asked my thoughts on some of the things i might address in rethink church & the agencies approach to using social media. one of the things that i suggested was the release of control of materials. creative commons is the new framework we move in, not exclusive copyright. so i found interesting some similar themes & possibly an answer in tim berners-lee ted talk on how he developed the internet (no, it wasn't al gore) and his newest 'play project' of linked data.

things that jumped out at me quickly were when he mentioned "you've payed for this" in regards to the data that the government has. because we have payed for them with tax payer money. within the united methodist church, we have apportionment's that pay for the agencies to do a large amount of their work. in essence, we are owners of that information. we should have access to it.

but there is a control mentality that if you give it away you loose 1. your ability to make money (which isn't the role of umcom or the other agencies) 2. that people will re-purpose your stuff (ala. a mashup or sound clip it for their own thing)... both of which, are navigatable (i don't think i just made up that word). many of our biggest companies give their braintrust away for free and they've parlayed it into a living and the most loyal of customers. why assume that someone re-purposing your stuff is innately bad? i go with the assumption there are more creative people out there than i. as a youth pastor i keep trying to groom them that way as well. they do things i would never have imagined re-purposing my ideas for the betterment of the ministry.

so what do i suggest with this?

  • get over your control issues. that might start with just naming them. (as a personal shot, why are we asking people to take down meaningful & helpful videos on youtube)
  • put people in charge of sharing your braintrust. put together the linked data setup with your information and let others come in and put in their part.
  • allow them full access so that they can know their people better & serve more fully
  • open up resources for them to re-purpose graphics, videos, logos, etc to reach a demographic that you are trying to reach, but painfully not.

March 12, 2009

more explaination of technology & virtual community : shane hipps day

zach lind did this little video interview for his podcast expanding a little more on what shane was getting at with technology & the virtual community.


Shane Hipps and Zach Lind Discuss Virtual Community. from Zach Lind on Vimeo.

virtual community is not possible : shane hipps day

this is the video by shane hipps in a little snippet interview by the out or ur folks at the national pastors convention. scot mcknight took some of this to task as well & kept going with it as shane chipped back in. tony jones also threw in his thoughts on virtual community into the conversation.

know how your technology is shaping you : shane hipps day

this is a good little video interview between rob bell & shane hipps (tip terrace) where shane flips on you what might be your preconceived notions on how technology is shaping you & culture.

Rob Bell Interviews Shane Hipps About Technology.

March 11, 2009

don't confuse who you are actually reaching : why i say your church tech stuff is lame

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in my recent presentation at podcamp nashville on spirituality and social media i was talking specifically about podcasting when i made statement along the lines of 'sermon podcasts are lame.' i believe that statement.. really i do. i have posted sermons online, in video and audio format. i have downloaded sermon podcast in video and audio format from many churches and the thing i've found.. i generally don't care about them. i'll end up deleting the subscription after a few months of only watching one or two.

why is this? is it the preaching? generally no.. most of the time the preaching is quite good. its the relationship. i have no clue who this person is really. i don't know their family, i don't know if they like football. we've never shook hands.. i just have a hard time investing in the words of someone i have no connection to. i can listen to you. take your wisdom, but in the long run, the lack of connection wins out and i fade away.

but i have heard stories where people say "but this person checked out our podcast and came to church" sure.. there are those folks. they are not me & i'm pretty average so i default that most folks are like me.

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but i hear that churches like mars hill bible church is at the top of itunes subscription list. how is that possible? well, for one, it doesn't stay up there. but two, why does anyone care about a church up in grand rapids michigan and what they have to say on sunday morning? truth is, they don't. what they do care is what rob bell has to say. people who have heard him speak at a conference, watched a series of nooma videos or read one of his books are invested in this guy. he's opened up to them in various ways. they know him & they want to know what more he has to say. the podcast, is just the conduit to continue to keep that relationship going. even if it is one sided.

so with this train of thought in mind. let's be honest about what our tech is used for. 1. your church facebook page/church twitter account/etc is not going to be populated by people who are unchurched and looking for a church. yes, a few may lurk as they church shop, if they are that point (which would technically not be unchurched). the grand population of all that technology is speaking to your own people. that's not a bad thing, just be honest about it and direct your energies with them as your focus.

i will give blogs (not housed on your church website) and youtube accounts a pass on this because they are more readily showing up in keyword searches (if you have indexed & keyworded them well) on google or youtube platform.

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truth is, if you are wanting to reach out, what you are generally only doing is 'speaking out' and with todays cultural and generation values, that just doesn't cut it anymore. no one cares to get involved in a one sided conversation.

so when you are talking up or talking about how to use technology to reach out of your church. remember these thoughts. just taking what ever is created within your church walls and then broadcasted out for people to hear is just lame. figure out a way, commit to doing, some things that truely engage people in a converation.

some quick thoughts.

  • start a podcast that uses call in or email questions, much like father roderick or mitch joel.
  • have other people in your church be given a recording device to take home or on a trip to record some real life conversations and put that out there.
  • go interview some people just walking the street (use video or audio) and ask them what questions they'd like someone to give an answer for or expand upon. then sneak them a business card with the feed url.
  • take the effort to transcript a video or audio podcast so that is searchable if someone was looking for Christ the King sunday thoughts (no affense to CtheK sunday, you're one of my favs).
  • set up personal accounts for facebook and twitter and make friends with people who are not in your congregation (this might mean putting an email note in the facebook friend request so you don't weird someone out). don't immediately invite them the the umw meeting (no affense to the united methodist women here either, i love you gals).
  • visit some secular events, take photos (good ones) then put them in facebook and then ask to be someones friend so that you may be able to tag them. then you can have an opportunity to share in one more vehicle.
  • if you put up a sermon, why not do a 'directors cut' with some commentary that makes it accessible, or trim down to just the most key points (trust me, not all of a 20 minute sermon is a critical key point).

March 09, 2009

archie carver jr. : may you rest in peace

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this morning i received word that one of my dads, archie carver jr., passed away after his long battle with liver cancer. he didn't talk about his cancer battle much, but i believe this was his third onset that he had to take on treatment for. he passed away this morning, march 9th, 2009, around 8:30am with friends and family with him.

N38418600_34794159_37 i will alway remember archie jr. for his quiet michievous-ness about him. in the big crowds of friends we'd find ourselves in at church he'd be the quiet one with this sneaky smile on him. telling jokes in his head, laughing at the rest of us trying one up each other,.. i'm not really sure, but that smile was always there. i know he wasn't always the quiet one, but i'll always see that face, that michievous smile and i'll smile myself.

N38418600_35456588_2122 archie was beloved by his friends. he was an active part of the cancer society in hendersonville, and many joined the cause on his behalf. last years relay for life was held in his honor as a survivor even. he was getting treatment in tulsa for the last 6 or so months. as is liver deteriorated and prognosis became grim a number of their friends left for tulsa to be at his & terri (archie's wife) side. yesterday his sunday school, at first united methodist, class spent the whole hour plus in prayer for their friend. they joked it would have been archie's favorite class to spend it in prayer without any real lesson.

you will be sorely missed in our church family archie. take rest & hope that you have been a part of something special in your friends & family. your children are wonderful extensions of yourself and terri, tiffani, archie III, and william.

may the Lord Bless you and Keep You. may he Heal you and Hold you. may he allow you to help cook some great eats for that communion of saints. until we meet again. shalom

update:

visitation is set on thursday, march 12th from 1-2pm, with celebration service beginning at 2pm and food afterwards, at hendersonville first united methodist church.

spirituality & social media : my podcamp nashville video

john w ellis, who has become one of our buddies in the nashville tech circle video taped my talk from podcamp nashville on saturday.



PodCamp Nashville: Spirituality & Social Media by Gavin Richardson from John Ellis on Vimeo

some links to referenced sites


March 07, 2009

spirituality & social media : the internet is our parish : podcamp nashville

here are the slides of my presentation earlier this morning at podcamp nashville. there were a couple of video recordings of the session, so i will link and post to those when they become available.

spirituality & social media : the internet is our parish
by gavin richardson
website : www.gavoweb.com
email : gavoweb@gmail.com
twitter : gavoweb

slide 1-2 : intro of self. this presentation is a quick exploration of how people have been living out and shaping their spiritual lives through the various social media tools. this is important to explore so that we can see how we are being shaped by these culture tools & come to understand how to use them to reflect who we are, not to be consumed by them. the flow of the presentation is, looking at how this is an excellent partnership, sharing some stories of faith in the social media spectrum, where faith goes wrong, suggestions that are just my humble opinion, and a little joke

slide 3 : the printing press as far as faith goes, has & continues to have the most profound impact on people living out their faith. up until that point scripture readings and community theological conversation happened at the temple, the well, the home. you had to go where people were gathered only in the creation of the printing press did scripture become accessible to the common person. you also see a further excentuating of a linear teaching but in the core, ministry is relational & creation of social media relationship is sought out by participants.. the church needs to break away from its hang ups on what ‘its always done’ because it hasn’t always done this. its actually a quite modern experience’

slide 4 : real live preacher was one of the first bloggers to take on a large following. 1. early adopter to the medium 2. there is something brilliant & counter to what people have experienced with pastors and he is expressing.. authenticity, availability, and pastor before you might have only had the stoic pastor who’s secrets, failures, struggles as a practicer of faith were kept out of sight and not talked about because that would ruin the integrity of the pastor. pastors were perfect, on a pedestal to be marveled at, but here, is another way

slide 5 : the emerging church movement was a grassroots shift in the evangelical church that brought a postive (as i see it) conversation to the church. blogging was their primary platform for the exchange of ideas and cultivating conversations and relationships. because we are faddish emergent can be taboo, emerging means something different, and ‘missional’ seems to be the new adjunct buzz word from the whole 6-7 year era. the wikipedia page was great, at one time it had in its links some 200 blog listings as ‘authoritative emergent blogs’

slide 6-9 : as with any faith the prophets are those people who are so extremely close to God that they can't help but to share what messages they are receiving. unlike our own time of logical reasoning prophets usually speak in poetry, lyric, dreams, etc. with the new mediums we might have to expand how some of or prophetic messages, which are generally hard messages to take, come to us..

slide 10-12 : i am a sucker for religious satire. the brilliance of satire is that, just like people people who watch the fake news, you actually have to know what the news is about. tweetjeebus, who went silent right before christmas day was one of my favorites. if anyone knows the some quick history of the great schism one of the big lines in the sand was an 'and' in the nicene creed one of my favorite twitter days was after charlton heston died. there was just some great images of the nra advocate who had been so revered in playing moses joining in with the communion of saints

slide 13-14 : my favorite of podcasters is father roderick. he started his podcasting career out when pope john paul 2 became ill as a news show for catholics wanting to know.. what came out of that was the catholic insider a podcast that was part news, q & a, and tour of the world. he's since parred his podcasting down to the daily breakfast which is a less technical podcast, but still incredibly interactive and covers a gammit o of subjects. just last week he had a long discussion on battle star galactica what is unique to this religious podcast is that people interact with him. this isn't his sermon series. he's accessible and average in his speak.

slide 15-16 : going off the normal social media map i want to mention a little bit on virtual communities in virtual worlds. this is me.. i live out my monastic tendencies in second life. i a homeless guy floating around from church area to area, but i have a base church that is united church of christ i have worshiped in. and with that i've made a lot of connections with the lgbt community. what is remarkable, as in this ash wednesday service at the lgbt church in second life, these are real people who are hurt enough by the stigmas that these virtual environments are a 'safe' place to live out their faith.

slide 17 : not everything is always a positive in the world of faith. the blasphemy challenge was a big thing a few years back where a 'rational response squad' asked people to do the unforgivable sin by blaspheming the holy spirit and god.. reading off a general script. this took up some decent number of responses as well as send a bunch of religious folks into a tizzy

slide 18-19 : so where does faith go wrong with some of this stuff? i'd say that one of the things that the religious institutions have trouble with is control. control of content, what is being said, the unfiltered-ness of discussion and that everyone has the ability for the same footing as every pastor, bishop, cardinal, cleric, rabbi, etc. i feel that churches too quickly jump onto the social media train. we need a facebook account, we need to twitter, we need this.. but they never ask why and they never listen to what is already being said by people out there. it is also to note that when the people of faith and the institutions get too involved with these or any tools it can get to an extreme where it turns on you i love south park, they do some of the best social commentary i my opinion. this episode where they lost the internet and the whole culture went bizerk. this is a moment where stan's sister meets her online boyfriend face to face & they don't know how to talk. but when the internet comes back they can get back together again. the church doesn't need to get so enamored with tech that forgets how to actually talk to people and relate.

slide 20 : so in my humble opinion. the "people" of faiths should seek out to listen first.. if that includes joining, so be it, but listen first to what people are saying and doing. make friends, however that looks, and cultivate relationships without agenda. maybe the sole agenda is to love another, and by love we seek the best for that person. i think the institutions should get away from social media as an institution.. i care not to hear about your pot luck dinner so-and-so church. but i might like to hear some of the personal struggles or triumphs of your leaders. give me somebody, not some entity.

slide 21-22 : one of my fav new sites that a fellow youth leader tipped me off too is a site created by the children of the jewish faith asking their jewish parents and friends to tell their best joke. this is great, the judaic faith is known for its storytelling so all their folks are great storytellers in their own ways. so i close with, an old jew who tells jokes.

slide 23: thanks!

February 07, 2009

the future of church : a green life returns to what we knew

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a few weeks back i was in a conversation where we were talking about the future of the church. i made some statement, not slamming the megachurch, but being less than kind to the megachurch as the future of church. which, i am prone to do.

one of the people just happened to be a part of the staff at one of the biggest megachurches, that i will leave unnamed (haha!). and he offered his view. he shared that he felt that the future church will look like megachurches and house churches.. hmmm..

now i pondered that. it most certainly could be the case. people seem to embrace the large corporation securities/offerings or they go against the grain in some anti-establishment stance, which could bring about that dynamic. but i don't know if corporation is the future (and lets be honest, the megachurch is a corporation) of the life of the person.

what i got to thinking about was the inclination people are having to live the 'green' lifestyle. it is just now becoming a norm and part of peoples daily practices. so as families develop with young adults that have grown up being 'green' what are some of their behaviors that might shape they way they participate in church life?

we are already seeing that people are not too worried about their church denomination loyalites. the economics are poor in large global corporate climate, which was otherwise safe & secure 5 years ago.

so these three things, 1. green living 2. falling denomination loyalty 3. an unsecure corporate economic will lead to resurgence of parish life.

people, conscious of their impact will doing old school transportation, walking to & from the markets/cafe/stores. because people cannot blindly count on corporations for their economic securities there will be a move back to small business (which i hope government taxes make easier, or less taxking, to do) bringing up local entrepreneurship, and finanicial control back to the individual, that we have not seen in 50+ years. people will move back into those houses of worship that were abandoned by a church denomination, or are a dieing congregation, in their neighborhoods and reshape them to what is core to their local needs.

when will this happen? maybe 20-30 years or so from now. there will be that generation shift where the older folks who have grown up with behaviors of driving all over God's green earth to get what they need are not the norm. they will be replaced by children of my family who have grown up living simply, using canvas bags for daily grocery pick up, walking to schools, riding a bike to the post office, knowing who all is in your neighborhood (instead of driving in and driving out).

will this replace what we currently know? not completely. just as the corporation will never leave us the megachurch will never leave either. but it will become less a significant voice in our day to day lives. there will be nothing to be enamored about as people lives will have become reoriented towards a parish life. house churches i don't see as being a norm, but being the new 'satalite' campuses of the parish church, which isn't such a new idea at all.

in the future, we will see parish life return.. will we, our denominations, be ready or will we have moved out our stakes?

chime in? agree/disagree? thoughts? am i crazy?

February 03, 2009

look back into the past : the things that were about this time years ago

in my on going toss out of lifting up some of the archives of this blog from similar time period over the years.

January 24, 2009

war & christianity : the many voices

i found this little video looking for a psalters song. it has some interesting thoughts on war from people whom i listen too, contemporary and old school.


January 23, 2009

online disciple : experiment in being a facilitator

many of you, my faithful readers know that community can happen over the bits & bytes of the internet. the folks behind the disciple study series are seeking to cultivate some disciple communities that will study and grow together. they are currently looking to fill out their facilitator list if you are interested visit the site and drop your name into the hat. tell them i sent ya & they might still let you in. haha! shalom, -gav


DISCIPLE Bible Study -- Online

Do you have persons in your congregation who are missing out on the transforming power of DISCIPLE because of their schedules? Do you have some whose travel keeps them from committing to a weekly class meeting? Do you have some who might like to take DISCIPLE with others who have a similar life experience?

The Richard and Julia Wilke Institute for Discipleship is excited to offer Disciple Bible Study -- now online at BeADisciple.com.

Here is how it works. Persons simply go to www.BeADisciple.com and enroll in the Disciple Online class they wish to join. A $30 fee is required to underwrite the costs of nine months of technical support. Next, participants will need a manual which they can purchase online from the Cokesbury site or through their local church. High speed internet connection is recommended.

Disciple Online may be offered to groups of 12 within a congregation. A few members of a congregation in one state may join together to study Disciple with a few from another state or even another country. Or individuals may enroll in Disciple Online with other individuals from anywhere.

Disciple Online will be presented in a standardized format. Each group will need a facilitator to watch over the sessions and to encourage participation. The facilitator will remain “a learner among learners." In addition to Disciple facilitator training, online facilitators will need to complete the online workshop “How to Become a Disciple Online Facilitator ” prior to leading a group. This workshop will be offered periodically at BeADisciple.com for $50.

Participants will do their daily reading and reflection with their manual on their own. Participants may enter their daily scripture notes in the online workshop environment if they choose, and assignments will be available with instructions for weekly group work. This will include discussion questions to be completed in a group-interactive discussion board by the participant at his/her own convenience. Prayer requests and written prayer petitions will be included. This online work covers what is normally accomplished in the first half of a normal face-to-face DISCIPLE class.

 Each week, a short review of the week's scriptures by Bishop Wilke, the author of DISCIPLE, will be presented online for participants to watch. These will lead into key questions for weekly discussion.

 The class schedule will be determined by the group facilitator. Every seven days the facilitator will conduct a live session online (approximately one hour) which walks the group through more discussion, exercises, and time for prayer together. This section will be conducted similarly to the second half of a face-to-face class and will transition the group into the next week. Each session will be recorded so that participants who have to miss a live session may view the live session later.

 Disciple Online will use the DISCIPLE (Becoming Disciples Through Bible Study) participant manual and facilitators guide but not the UM Publishing House DVDS/videos which normally accompany the study. Participants are encouraged to gain access to these materials through their local church or through Cokesbury.

If you have any questions, or would like to provide some input into the development of Disciple Online, please email Lisa at beadisciple@sckans.edu.

 Bishop Wilke -- A message regarding Disciple Online

 Information for potential Disciple Online facilitators

January 19, 2009

remembering martin luther king jr. : not a tamed guy

one of the things i often wonder about martin luther king jr is how just about everyone has this warm feeling about him. his often highlighted 'i have a dream' speech is wonderful and captivating of ones imagination. but, that isn't his only speech and many are not so easy to stomach as being part of america. as a modern prophet he is dangerous to people, he speaks a truth that is hard to come to be honest with. he just isn't that tamed person that i often think people see of him. this is one such episode

January 16, 2009

caption contest & freebie : in recognition of inauguration day

inauguration day is always an great day. i know people have their reasons for this year being more special than others, but to know that we have a complete change of government leadership without violence or war is something to behold. so, in recognition of inauguration i've got this caption contest. cool thing, my completely subjectively chosen winner (and you can vote for who you think is best) will be sent a copy of my worship feast prayer stations cdrom project & maybe some more stuff, but i promise that one.
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let the captioning begin!

January 05, 2009

monday music : love is here

i am not a big christian music aficionado, at least not anymore. its not that i don't like christian music, but it just hasn't filled my soul need. one group tho that i got turned onto this summer (when way of pilgrimage was using their stuff for discussion videos) i do find myself listening to more and more. they are called tenth avenue north. they could be super huge now, i wouldn't know, but they are reasonably new to me. i like their sound & they don't sound awkward moving tempo in their songs. i haven't done the dissecting of the theology of songs, so far i am just enjoying.

December 30, 2008

desiring the undesirable : homeless and hungry in our world

Image i ran into rudy rasmus this summer at soulfeast at lake junaluska. i wasn't a participant of soulfeast, but i got to meet him cause my people knew his people and i am just so important.. not really. he was standing in the doorway going to some workshop when people i did know intro'd me. from what i gathered he was quite the spiritual leader for the group at soul feast. buddy jay voorhees really liked him and contemplated growing the braided beard look.

the folks at the circuit rider have in circulation an article he's written on ministry with the homeless and hungry in our society titled desiring the undesirable that is a definite read.

December 29, 2008

youth ministry 3.0 : emerging youth ministry observation

T_9780310668664 i was given youth ministry 3.0 by the folks at youthworker movement and asked to give a recommendation on whether it is a must read, okay read, and on down the line.

knowing mark oestriecher through some mild interactions and consistent reader of the marko blog, even read the precursor postings that lead up to the writing of this book i was very excited to get a hold of a copy and start reading.

some of my thinking points

  • i read this book in one sitting.. not sure, but i think that is a first.. it isn't a long overly drawn out book, which i can appreciate. the basic framework of the book goes through a basic understanding of adolescent development then history of youth ministry leading into the futurist thoughts on where this new phase we will be finding ourselves in regards to youth ministry. i call it futurist in that some of the basic methods for analyzing the future trends is looking at the historic path and the consistent behaviors of the target group.
  • some of the voices that marko uses for giving language to this future are the like of kenda creasy dean and many from the emergent/emerging/missional church generative friendship. so if you are familiar with what they are saying then you will probably find threads you already resonate with in y3.0.
  • the adolescent section dragged for me. being an early childhood and human development person in college all the adolscent stuff was basic.. but, for those who have no training or education in human development and/or life stages then its a good primer to get you started in the know. i've leaned on my adolescent development knowledge for years and still have my text books (which might be in need of some updating).
  • the history of youth ministry is brief and very general. it basically covers the evangelical spectrum and grazes a few thoughts on mainline christian practice. now, this could be attributed in part to that evangelical contexts were the first to be doing a 'youth' ministry. if that be the case it should be explored what spiritual formation when a youth was immersed into a full life of the church instead of being separated out. some of this could be hashed out reading four views of youth ministry
  • i cannot express how much i support some of the ideas that marko shares in being ready to deconstruct the old forms of youth ministry. he doesn't put out what youth specialties will be doing next as the next form or youth ministry, as he confesses he doesn't even know, but that a change is happening and to ignore it will only lead you aimlessly into the wendy's black hole (you'll have to read the significance on that one). marko's greatest gift to the youth ministry world is giving some language to those are feeling frustrated that what you have been doing does not work to bring about some change. change is not hard within a church context, but you need to be able to speak to it.
  • i was super pleased to see the word 'discernment' in the book. as i was reading and hearing marko say 'i don't know how this will turn out' or 'can't tell you what it will look like for you' i was sitting saying, you need discernment.. a few pages later, that is what marko suggested (and i was well pleased). the practice of discernment with your adults and youth alike is a powerful time of reshaping and anticipating the needs of your youth community. the youth minister will/should become more of a spiritual director in this regard cultivate a community that is intune with their cultural context. i would suggest additional reading of practicing discernment and the art of spiritual direction
  • i like the idea of encouraging folks to become a youth culture anthropologist. its not hard to start into things like that. getting on the ypulse email list, cpyu email list, using google reader to subscribe to some blogs (like mine, haha) and news outlets, then using google news to send you news articles on keywords (ie. youth culture) is an easy way to observe some of the trends. beyond what i have mentioned personally subscribe to wired magazine, which throws out gems like snack culture. i also pick up a futurist magazine every now and then. a cheaper thing i do is watch my youth cruise through youtube and their behaviors.
  • the "communional" idea is worth more discernment. the best part is that marko gives his own language spin to it. language will take you far in moving forward in shifting sands of youth ministry.

so as the folks who gave me the book asked. would i say this is a must have? no.. conditional that you are reading a whole lot from other places. is this a good read? certainly.

is it worth your time? if you are feeling that you are not making a dent and wondering if there is a different way? for sure. if you are looking for some language to help reshape some change this is a good starting point.


December 23, 2008

tennessee conference position updates : what a long strange trip its been

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our conference office sent this announcement out just last evening via our listserv.

The new Directors of Children and Family Ministries and Director of Youth and Young Adults will be announced in January. Before that announcement the CCOCM Personnel Committee wanted to update the conference on the procedure.

The 2008 Annual Conference voted to have the job descriptions approved by the CCOCM before the interview and hiring process could begin. Prior to the development of the job descriptions, listening sessions were conducted with the existing Children's Council, Youth Council, youth, workers with youth, young adults, and interested persons. These listening sessions refined the direction of the CCOCM and lead to the development of the job descriptions approved on September 25th.

A national search was conducted for both positions. Ten resumes were submitted for the Children and Family position and the Personnel Committee picked four applicants for interviews. The President and Vice- President of the Youth Council were added to the Personnel Committee and were valuable participants in the selection and interview process. Thirty-eight resumes were submitted for the Youth and Young Adult position and five persons were selected for interviews.

Opal Ransom, Chair of the CCOCM Personnel Committee, said, "We have sought to be fair in the hiring process and I am very pleased with the candidates we have selected."


i am pretty close to these situations, so i was at first confused.. why give an announcement that you are going to announce seven days (at least) from now? especially when holding off information got in the way of the original process that has led us all the way to here.

for those that do not remember, i became the face and an undermining voice (in some opinions) with my position at conference youth coordinator and this blog here, not to mention all the various social networks that i am a part of or created, when our conference office terminated both our youth & children's positions at the conference level for a joint position. part of that firestorm came because communication was not in a timely manner, ie. now. people were not getting information from the office so they talked to whomever they could, and sometimes just created stuff. i have taken some responsibility for some of the information that went out, partly because i wasn't being called or communicated with either. i did, as i do, tried to convey as much information without telling people what to think. i never told someone what to write or call and say,.. anyways, thats old news i care not to relive. i have pissed off some people, made some new fans, become fan of many people, and all in the name of holding together our conference youth ministries. since we went from a joint ministry person to a full-time person (which is actually an improvement from where we were) i consider our groundswell of people to have some element of success. but as with anything like this, no one wins happily.

back to my initial confusion.

what is in this news alert is true. i can speak for the youth portion of this process. myself, opal, loyd, brad (the new incoming youth coordinator back during all this) and an assortment of youth, young adults, and youth leaders got together a number of times to talk about ministries in the conference area. we dreamed up some big stuff and challenged each other. we then produced a document based on that which contained some plans, a description of sorts, and some goals to hit for an incoming person. no one asked me to be on the personnel group to go over candidates, knowing my track record with some of the people, i didn't expect to be invited either. i know who we hired and i am very content with that decision. i have also known who we hired for the children's position, which i am indifferent about that. from the children people i've communicated with, they know too.

what our conference leadership needs to learn from this (and i know you read this), is that appropriate communication is needed. now 'appropriate' is a perception term, so let me share that the perception is 'now' or like yesterday. no, its not fair all the time, but with people finding out that there was a plane crash or terrorist attack via hyper news outlets as twitter acts frequently, people are only going to be more expectant of information they care about quickly. going days weeks, months, without saying anything is giving your audience license to create and say whatever they need to fill their information gaps. you allow people like me to speak & give words to others opinions, which may or may not be a good thing. bad communication undermines peoples confidence in you and your mission.

a great case in point in the obama campaign using various tools to keep people, in the know. their only slip up seemed to be when the txt updates for vp candidate were lost in a huge database of people that the news got to burst the story before millions got their message. he's keeping to that communication commitment by doing weekly 'fireside' chats via youtube talking about what/why of some of his decisions. wonder if he will share why he's chosen rick warren?

this process has gone on for over 9 months now, its time to say something. name people and lets move on.

December 22, 2008

things on tab : stories sex religion church teens and technology

as part of my new integration of lifestream stuff into my blogs newer look. i've been plugging a lot of stuff into my gavin del.icio.us account. so you can track back to these and other links of interest long after this posting (and others) have cycled out of view. i'm working on figuring out how i like stumbleupon or digg.

December 20, 2008

christmas day experience : not so peaceful after all

the other night we had our live nativity at church. it was great fun, partly cause i was not in charge, seeing people get dressed and all ages of the church getting together. then seeing people slow down or honk as they drove by to take a look or pull into the parking lot to pet obama and mccain llama's. it was crazy. it reminded me of years ago when i attended the children's service back at my home church where it was what i felt was a bethlehem experience. so i naturally loved this recent asbo jesus, not so peaceful night.
Silentnight

December 19, 2008

last minute toy store : getting filmed by the news


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i am actually amazed this photo turned out so well. took with my cell phone which is not the best of cameras, while standing on the front steps doing crowd control.

this is one of my senior hs and college guys getting filmed by fox news helping to take items to peoples cars who were helped by the last minute toy store. i'll be heading back there again today. i'm just running a little late.

i don't know if it made it onto the news or not. this was the article they have online about the last minute toy store.

sex week challenge revist : commentary for umportal

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a few weeks back i made a simple commentary about ed young's sex week challenge to his congregation. amy forbus asked if i would expand on my feelings for a commentary for the umportal. i'm never short on something to say so i gave it a go. it will go into print for the reporter next month, but is online now as 'sex challenge misses the mark.'

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Having followed Mr. Young closely and watched his sermons online, I know he has some good reasons why sex is an important part of a marriage relationship. But his pandering with the news media outlets and their need for one-line quotations only simplified an otherwise complicated issue.

Let me suggest we should not be talking about sex as a “foundation” for our marriages. Before we should be having sex, we should figure out how we are friends with our spouses and others. If we are to “reclaim sex” as God’s great gift from the seduction of culture we have to start at the deep core, not the symptom. The deep core we need to address is how we are friends in love, not lovers in bed.

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go read more of why sex challenge misses the mark

December 10, 2008

charity vs justice : her name is heather

two weeks ago we had adam, who is an understudy to our senior pastor, come and share with our youth his experience as a us-2 missionary and his passion for social justice issues.

one thing that adam said to the kids, that convicted my soul was how he saw charity vs justice. charity as he saw it was alleviating the short term problem or taking care of an immediate need, justice was finding out the reason for the problem and doing something to prevent it. i am a good person, with a load of compassion (that might get me in trouble sometimes). my heart breaks, for people in need, but asking myself what i have done for helping alleviate the problems or system that makes that need ever present i have to say i'm a failure. now, adam did go on to say acts of charity are good and do help, but for me i don't want to ignore a problem..

so i then drove down to nashville to meet up with folks from the national youth workers convention for a twitter meet up. as i parked in my special locals parking (my secret) i walked out of a garage and saw her... i didn't know her name, i just knew one thing about her, she was/is homeless... she was asking someone for money and i thought 'what to do here'.. i was going to have to walk past her. i could do some of the rhetoric i've gone through in the past asking questions to make sure they know where help is (the rescue mission, room in the inn, the soup kitchens in the neighborhood).. i could say i don't have anything, when i know, i have plenty.

i walked up to her, i looked at her, she started her story. "hi there sir..." and on she went. i looked at her, asked "what is your name?" "heather" she said. "what can i help with?" she just asked for food. so i asked her to walk with me. she waited outside the convention center (her insistence) and i bought some food for her for that moment and something she could hold onto for later. i brought it out to her, she thanked me, i just said you are welcome and said something like 'bless you & hope this helps.'

i walked from that park bench to the old spaghetti factory some three blocks away pondering what i had just done. was i dupped? maybe.. was it the right thing to do? maybe.. was it charity? surely.. was it justice? i cannot say that it was.

ariah posted this video and it had me thinking again of this moment.. justice is so involved. do i have the place in my life that i can truly participate in, develop, or find a home in social justice to ignite a passion? its funny being in ministry it sometimes seems counter intuitive to actually be in ministry. this video though gave me much to think about. brought to us from effective stewardship


i was encouraged to see others of my youth ministry colleagues taking care of heather and others of our nashville homeless population.

what is your charity? and what is the justice you seek out?

December 05, 2008

i am second : next generation testimony

jared turned my attention to the site "i am second" which is a series of testimony videos where the gist is, 'i was first, but came to know Christ and know now, that i am second.' the videos are not terribly flashy, with effects and all, but powerful with just lighting and the stories.. oh the stories.. this one jared shared and is, so far, the one i've connected with. not because i've been a drug user or even a huge korn fan,.. maybe it was the connection with the child (which i'm not a dad yet either, but i get the kid connection). if you haven't seen it yet (its starting to make rampant across the blogosphere) check out "i am second"

December 04, 2008

things on tab : oh what i'm pondering

its about time to offload some the many things of interest i've got on tab

December 01, 2008

world aids day : its preventable

today is world aids day, and we all need to take some action to keeping aids at the fore front of our causes. if you are united methodist tribe member like myself, or anyone for that matter, you can contribute to the global aids fund, which still hasn't met it's goal of raising $8 million in four years (i believe that number represents 1 dollar per member). maybe its time to put some posters around your office, church, or home to be a reminder.

November 18, 2008

tuesday randomness : the link love

i've got a bunch of things on tab to look through.

November 11, 2008

camp edge : church vbs

so i noticed i have been getting some traffic from cokesbury's vacation bible school curriculum for 2009, camp edge. i mentioned before that we were a pilot church the last two years. they bring in some film crew folks and put together a promotion video. apparently this years video is out roaming the internet now and it is kinda fun to see some of our youth and other church peeps getting their vbs on.

November 08, 2008

ministry 2.0 : agoraphobic church by david foster

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agoraphobic church : keynote by ministry 2.0

  • some shifts in the church that david has seen
    • fundamentalism
    • seeker sensitive
    • new shift, our methods don't work. cool methods only go so far
  • have growing culture that knows not pharoah
  • fragmentation, each person can start a movement. lots of 'mini-movements'
  • we have methodological freedom & technical power to advance the church from agoraphobic stage
    • agoraphobia, fear of the marketplace
    • fear of open space or ideas
  • as people of the church we are zenopobic, fearful of stranger
  • mission miopia, greatest mission that churches have is survival. a mission of survival isn't very inspiring
  • if we only go after the churched we are only hitting a shrinking population
  • wall-less, wireless, worn-out
    • we live in a day with the death of distance. bricks & mortar are no longer defining
    • nimble simple lean are the thing of the future
    • a mobility that redefines sacred space
    • how does an entity survive being open only one hour a week?..
    • wireless, anyone everywere anytime
    • worn-out, live in a culture of intense complexity
    • we can't explain it in the same old world words
    • (talk on varieties in life reminded of this malcolm gladwell ted talk)
    • you gotta come when we are open & hear what we have to say, no longer
  • marketing is now content
  • how do we use tech to leverage our message. the gospel is our core message
  • not sin management (from dallas willard)
  • its one thing to have the tech equally exciting to have content that matters
  • more open to dialogue, less open to rhetoric
  • if we continue our walled in gardens we will loose 'the race'

david foster is pastor of the gathering a church plant in cool springs area of tennessee

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ministry 2.0 : at the core of social media by stephen anderson

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at the core of social media : workshop session at ministry 2.0 technology conference

what is social media? the process of using interactive web-based tools to establish community

  • why? what do you want to accomplish? in being part of social media
  • dangers of failure to planning ongoing engagement
  • at the heart of the tools is conversation
  • a wiki is where people collaborate on a document, not a forum
  • www.wearemedia.org social media site for non-profits
  • people move tools, how to design to keep people
  • there are people who create content & those who spectate
  • participation, openness, conversation, community, connectedness by chris brogan (download his latest ebook, fish where the fish are)
  • "we are not sure who'll have time to moderate it?" are you really ready?
  • do you want to be a platform for people to participate in that open conversation?
  • how business sees this
    • broadcast : we tell you what to think of our service
    • interactive : tell us what you think of what we tell you
    • social media : tell each other
  • characteristics of all the tools, at the center is people
  • ideas & beliefs develop on experiences and trust
  • what makes something a good experience?
    • accomplishment
    • exceeding expectation
    • saves time
    • task accomplishment
    • the experience itself
    • packaging
    • brand
  • 3 broad groups to experiences,
    • the core interaction describes the 'thing' (product or service) being purchased
    • the presentation layer describes secondary elements that have a direct effect on our perceptions
    • the communications layer describes those attraction efforts which an indirect effect on perceptions
  • two halves to the model
    • the top half is the company space and all things that can be controlled by the company
    • the bottom half is what a user can create/work with
  • mix of rational & emotional

experiences and trust

  • what builds trust? what looses trust?
  • experiences are the currency of trust
  • trust makes social life predictable, creates a sense of community,...
  • community depends on trust

the church needs tools

  • that connect people globally and locally
  • help people group around shared interests
  • make it easier to share with the ...

tools

  • shared corporate gathering via ustream
  • twitter or small groups or missionaries
  • blogs, share your heart
  • etc.. start with you needs and then find the tools

these are some things i'd like to accomplish at, through or for my church: (my generated list)

  • develop pride in the ministry and message of our community
  • have extensions to relationships from sunday to sunday
  • inform parents and key players
  • play some role in developing apprentices of Christ
  • have familiar grounds to have tough conversations
  • challenge the status quo of the church
  • inspire others

categories

tips

stephen anderson is the vice president of design at viewzi. stephen promises to put his slides from this session on slideshare.

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ministry 2.0 : driving traffic by chuck russell

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driving traffic, to your church website : workshop session at ministry 2.0 technology conference

  • you want to get people to come back, over and over again
  • make the site the primary vehicle
  • q? "how'd you make the transition from the printed to online newsletter" answer, "we just did it. we do have a once a month paper publication that is more storytelling of missions or ministry etc."
  • forward compatability vs backward compatible. we make decisions on what we want to be about
  • once you put everything on the front page, nothing is on the front page. people couldn't see it, lost in the mix. find the middle road.
  • task based organization, what are using coming to your site to do?
  • "highest real estate of a site is the top left"
  • new to church is highest ranking, email newsletter 2nd, media and calendar are the sticky things that bring people back
  • if it is on the bulletin then it goes onto the website homepage as featured item
  • navigation structure of site. jargon and organizational thinking in navigation. use words that are understandable by others (ex. journeys, don't know if is youth or whatever). navigation shouldn't be done according to the organization of work.
  • organize content according to users, not church structure
  • consistency across the site is critical. having different structures for different parts of the site is frustrating for users
  • search-ability of site. larger site need better search-ability. if smaller the structure needs to be stronger
  • "don't make me think" book on search-ability
  • integrate with the core values of your church. make sure everything goes in with your mission & purpose statements and movement of the church.
  • tie to your discipleship values. integrate all throughout the site. putting in the message
  • web credibility project, what is appeal of your site
  • integrated brand position with your site. get content past peoples filter by being consistent across mediums
  • develop a content maintenance plan. how are you going to keep all this going and up to date. chuck uses a weekly communications schedule. all the stuff that needs to be done that week (micro level). need to keep the site up to date to keep folks coming back.
  • cross promotion (thinking like oprah). on her website she's promoting her tv show or radio show. on the radio show they promote the web site, etc. crucial to how you think about promotions
  • business cards need to have the web site address. bulletins need to promote site, etc.
  • in all flyers have short cut links to your promotions. they don't always have to just promote the homepage. www.sitename/ministry/ build that culture. children's ministry has its own domain name, but it just directs back to page within the site. domain names are cheap. can be printed on flyers, t-shirts, outside of church building, etc.
  • newspaper ad, everything we do has the website address. we don't do ads in the faith section. we put in the sports or finance sections.
  • direct mailer, has times and website for services. put prominently. do a /specificneed url for the message you are getting out.
  • the web is a fast medium, people don't want to wander around your site (church & corporate site wise, youtube a bit different)
  • email newsletters a primary driver of coming back to the site. it used to be really long and content heavy. now its short and links to information on the website. people scan & click
  • email aquisition strategy, if you sign into the attendance pad you get the pastor emails and wednesday newsletter. also have online web site sign up. if you sign up for an event we don't put you in. will put you into specific event emails if attending those.
  • social media, have people link back and help drive traffic back to you. blogs, facebook groups, individual and ministry blogs, podcast of sermons, etc. the more ways you are out there, the exponential the effect.

chuck russell is leadership development director at church of the resurrection in leawood kansas outside kansas city (that was for you chuck)

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ministry 2.0 : seo/sem by chuck russell

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how search engines work : workshop session at ministry 2.0 technology conference

  • search engines go out and crawl the visibly accessible web. things that are not intentionally blocked by passwords or 'don not crawl' commands
  • search engines read text, imagine a blind person reading. can't view images.
  • they hold cache's or copies of the text.
  • clicking 'cached' on search results gives clue why a particular page showed up so high.
  • results circulate around relevant and popularity
    • relevance is about the amount of content
    • popularity is about the traffic & linked too the most
  • if you put out a brand new site it might take 3 months to make it to the top of search engine because of popularity. need to get found.
  • identify the landing pages of your site that you want people to find
    • optimize a 'new to...' page for new visitors
    • don't have to drive people just to your homepage
    • drive traffic for singles ministry. think search for 'franklin singles'
    • what are the most seeker oriented activities? what are the draws? the entry point
    • cor, uses a lot of paid search around Christmas & Easter
    • optimizing your code, get up on w3 standards. the better your code is or standards impliant the better you will show up.
  • brainstorm search terms
    • the obvious are the 'church' hits the folks who are church shopping
    • wordtracker paid service, will give you some info on word searches to help optimize
    • how many key words do you want to manage for
    • using analytics can give you an idea of what people are searching for
  • title tags
    • the things that show up at the top of the browser is the first thing crawlers see, optimize that to the key words you need
    • for every page you have you want to optimize that tag
  • meta tags
    • used to be the way, but is moving away from that depending the search engine. google doesn't put much stock in it
    • the description tag puts in the blurb in the search engine results. its text the search engine will see but it is not something you see on the site. say something interesting to get people to click on it
  • body text
    • the number of times a particular word shows up 'density' gives more optimization
    • want to do that without sounding non-sensical
    • tricks to use white text or microscopic text that is not visible will get you banned
  • link building
    • popularity comes with traffic and inbound links
    • google webmasters tool
    • blogs are great for inbound links
    • press releases and stories in online newspapers
    • link:"site name" will give list of
    • the language of the incoming link matters
  • advanced lp's (landing page)
    • using special landing pages with large use of keywords, then point people off to things they want to see.
    • use this for the long tail
  • paid search
    • google adwords, pay for the click. mailings we have no clue the results of return, they say about 1%. on adwords you have very targeted audience
    • facebook, has so much data based on the people profiles, demographics, activity and can be targeted to those folks
    • roi, return on investment can exponentially pay for itself if someone shows up and stays
  • local search
    • claim your business, free
    • plug in with that
    • can put in videos that are on youtube
  • any time you have the opportunity to put out text that you can control you need to do that.
  • directories / tools
    • submit your site if it is happens to not be there
    • google web master tool is important to have in use
    • analytics, google analytics is free, you can really get in and understand what is going on on your site

chuck russell is leadership development director at church of the resurrection in leawood kansas outside kansas city (that was for you chuck)

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November 07, 2008

ministry 2.0 : tech stuff for church folk

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tomorrow i am getting up early and heading south of town to participate in the ministry 2.0 training & workshops. if you are in the nashville/middle tennessee area you should come join too. there are still spaces available to jump in. those outside of town. i'll probably be live blogging what i can, much like i did for barcamp nashville.

November 06, 2008

catchin up : the link love

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i'm finally getting back around to catching up with folks in my blogosphere. some links that i felt interesting enough to share.

October 21, 2008

out early playing often : teaching tech to church folks

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tomorrow, waaay too early for me, i'm heading out to albuquerque. i'm meeting up with wifey, who is flying in from washington dc, and we are catching a free day before i get to work teaching technology stuff to folks at cef conference.

i'm sure to be hanging out with david camphouse & hopefully laura, who actually lives there but not going to the conference. anyone else going to be there?

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